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Is it me or is there something not right with this picture?

I have a question to ask, is it me or is there something not right with this picture? I go with this lady that’s 47 years old she has two sons (half bothers) one is 28 years old and one is 22 years old, neither has been sick and both healthy as horse’s. She has been married 5 times she’s been divorce just a little over a year with the 5th one. She’s a great lady to be around and I really care for her. Now, a little about myself I’m 48 years old and been married twice. The lady and I have been seeing each other for 7 months. Here’s the thing, she has what I call a normal mother and son relationship with the 22 year old son. ( I get along real good with both boy’s.) Now when it comes to the 28 year old son, I have to scratch my head in question? He’s not married but he does have a girl friend that he lives with at her mothers house, they have a daughter and one on the way. His girl friend works all the time and he has work just one month out of the 7 month’s I have known him (his mom wanted him to come to work at her job) but he does start a new job tomorrow (and it not with his mother but, she going to take him shopping tonight for new work clothes). He’s big into sports and loves to play poker, so that leaves his mother baby sitting 2-3 nights a week so he can play poker and if she don’t want to baby sit he gets mad and start’s saying thing like you don’t care about your granddaughter and other things to make her feel bad and guilty (and it works). Because if we are out doing something it has to stop and we go back to her house. If he’s not playing poker with his friends he’s at her house laying around, so we have 1 maybe 2 nights alone a week. They call each other 6-10 times a day, she goes to see him a lot on her lunch break and when see gets off work she’s goes see him for 1 to 1-1/2 hours at a time or to pick him up to come to her house, she wants them to move in with her if she had the room. She has 2 pictures of her 22 year old son in the house and around 6-7 pictures of the 28 year old and one of them was on her dresser facing her bed, until I asked about it. I have notice, just like the night before I’m sitting on the love seat by myself and her and her 28 year old son sitting on the couch she’s rubbing his arm and playing with a brace lace on his wrist, they also horse play and sometimes she just act real silly (like a star struck teenager) with him. They have little arguments like a husband and wife would have. Tonight the three of use are going to grill out, his choice. This woman has never ask me what I would like to have for dinner, when she cooks its for him and it’s his choice of food. If she not cooking for him, it eat out for her and me. I really felt bad for other other son last week, we was grilling out and he showed up on his dinner break from work and she didn’t even ask him to come and it’s like that a lot. Well, this woman really cares a lot about me and she show it, she wants me around all the time and she wants us to be together (she wants to move in with me….maybe, because I have a bigger house and her son can move in with us ...LOL.) But really is this normal behavior between a mother and son? I know my bother and I didn’t have it with our mother, and I have all daughter’s. So tell me, is it me or is there something not right with this picture?

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1. hm... yes.
2. errrr pass...
3. Something's not right with you taking the time to write out this whole pathetic story.
4. hm No
5. yea there is something wrong with that picture, i've seen this behavior before and i thought i was out of my mind and then i found out i was right.
6. your question is too long but it sounds like you think this lady is doing her son? yea that is more than not right it is crazy sick and perverted so if i was you i would find out for sure and if true run as fast as you can
7. Definitley there is something wrong. You should ask her about him. I have absolutely no advice. You should figure out whats going on with that. Maybe thats why shes been divorced 5 times.
8. I got lost on th 6th sentence...sorry
9. get out now. or at least dont get anymore serious. she has problems and you know it . if it dosnt feel right its usually not
10. It sounds off to me too. Maybe the oldest son reminds her of his father and she is still hung up on him. Definitely sounds like she needs to cut the cord like yesterday.
11. tooo long...
12. I'd say there is something wrong. I understand a mothers love...but this almost sounds like infatuation. It sounds like she has chosen her older son as her favorite child and doesn't want to let him go. Maybe you should try talking to her and let her know how you feel. What could it hurt? She might not even realize that she's acting this way if she's done it since he was born. Good luck.
13. Could you repeat that?
14. The 28 year old son should have been in college, gotten a job and moved out by now. She should move in with you but let the son and his GF in your girlfriends house and like just stay with her and her other sons. Then you maybe will be a happy family and they can have there own unhappy family. Maybe the 28 year olds GF will move out and take the kids, which wouldnt be good but it would get him off your back lol!!!
15. Yo............... Confusing........
16. Tell him to get off of his lazy A** and learn how to be a good father and boyfriend... AND he needs to learn how to treat his mother with more respect then that. Tell him he needs therapy or something... And you never know what's going on with her and her son's... Maybe that's why she's been divorced 5 times... Think about it...
17. It sounds like he has dependancy issues and she cant let go. Unfortunatly it can be difficult with "empty nest syndrome". Talk to her, let her know how you feel, mabey she will realise that she has to stand up to her manipulating son
18. maybe the 28 yr old suffers a little bit of an Oedipus Complex...and about the mother supporting that behavior...kind of unusual, ur not alone on that one..
19. sounds to me like this mother shows a lot of favoritism to her older son. i do spoil my son but he is only 4.I dont think that it is really all that healthy to keep doing it when they are adults. if this woman cares for you enough you should tell her how it makes you feel. she will either understand or not. if she doesnt seem to see things the way you do you will probably end up being in his shadow for as long as you are together. Good luck!
20. OMGosh that is not good...28-years old, not married WITH kids living with his mother? uh-uh...that's just not good. The thing that is tricky for you is that you are basically the 3rd wheel in the situation...since they are mother and son. If you were to get married OR move in together OR whatever...I think you need to have a talk with your woman about this...you just have to be very VERY careful about it...because you can't get insulting or offensive to either side...because that'll get you one ticket right out of there! I would approach your girlfriend, and ask her why he has lived with her so long, especially if he has a family. Talk about it and don't get mad, but be understanding. Then, if you and your girlfriend are financially able, talk about options you could do to HELP them find a place of their own, and make an agreement with the son and his girlfriend that if they both agree to try and have steady jobs and save money, then you 2 will help them. That way you won't look like a bad guy who's kicking them out but a good guy who wants to see them happy and independent. But yea...that picture...CRAZY! Good luck!
21. Sounds like they need to cut the cord already. If she is going to move in with you, put your foot down and do not let him and his girlfriend and his kids move in too!! You will be miserable!!
22. To tell you the truth I didn't like this story that much. If I were you I wouldn't move in with her. Well the truth is that we know the half true of the story as we don't know what she would say. Anywayz. Investigate some more or try to talk with her. If you plan to move in with her it means that you share everything. Even your thoughts
23. Not really you said that you are always around if there was something going on you will notice it. Mothers can be over protective sometimes so don't worry if you really like her and want to be with her start taking her on getaways just you and her the older son has to realize that his mom has a life and she can't live his life she has to live her life.
24. so you aren't getting all the attention is basically what you're saying? you have to decide if you are willing to except whatever bond they have between eachother.. thats something that will never change. and if you don't like the situation now.. what makes you think your going to like it 10 weeks from now? you need to think about what your investing in here...
25. RUN RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN
26. it depends which angle u look at it. so your lady friend has been through five husbands is this 28 yr old from 1st 2nd???? i think he was from the earlier husbands so has seen all daddys comiing and going . maybe ur lady friend has realised that she may have focusssed all her love on her male company and her son may not have been her main priority when he was younger.. i get this from the way he gets her to baby sit and the way she alway gives in and puts her life on hold for him.maybeshe feels she has a lot to catch up on the loving and taking care of her son.. why do u not ask her nicely..obviously if u to are intimate u can sometimes ask about her kids no?? i feel that she has a lot to catch up on being a mother and this elder child of hers did miss out on alot of maternal love at an earlier age no? hope my interperation of your picture is acceptable if not then i guess im looking from wrong angle
27. Yes! My sister is the same way! The thing is she makes my mother feel bad so she has to do whatever she wants her to do because she hold the grand kids against her! My mother needs to speak up and tell her she won't stand for it any longer and your girl should too. If not that boy will continue to walk all over her until the day she dies! Good luck!
28. OH BOY, WHAT A LONG QUESTION!!! BUT I KINDA SKIMMED THRU..SO FROM WHAT I CAUGHT..I THINK U SHOULD TELL HER YOU'RE A LITTLE UNCOMFORATABLE WITH IT..
29. ewww, have you considered that they are having a sexual relationship? what kind of mother is she? Tell her when she is dead and gone her 28 year old will probably end up homeless or something since he has never learned to be a man and is this the legacy she wants to leave behind? He will most likely hate her after she is gone and he has no one else to babysit him for the rest of his life. Find a real woman